I wrote a blog post in 2022 and felt it was important to update it with the latest information for parents and grandparents.
TikTok is a free social app that allows anyone watch, create and share short videos from ones phone. It has taken popular features from other apps such as lip syncing to short music sound bites to creating comedic videos that are no longer that 60 seconds. Users can create a video without leaving the app as it provides all the editing tools in the app to make it easy for users to add effects, filters and sound bites.
The app is owned by a Chinese tech giant called ByteDance. As of January 2025, the United States has around 170 million TikTok users. This makes the US the second country with the most TikTok users, after Indonesia which is more than Twitter, Linkedin or Snapchat.
Like most social media apps, TikTok collects a huge amount of personal information about its users by demanding access to their phone's camera, microphone, contact list and location using GPS tracking. Here is a link to . https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/why-is-tiktok-being-banned-supreme-court-congress/ This should be a great concern for adults and parents. We all need to be informed:
User demographics today
Age: The majority of TikTok users are under 30, with the largest age group being 20 years old.
Gender: 17% of female users are between 25 and 34 years old, and 15% of male users are in the same age group.
Usage: 95% of adults who use TikTok say they do so for entertainment.
The average TikTok user spends more than 50-55 minutes per day and TikTok's algorithm delivers what people want to see, so there is an "endless stream" of content. Teens love the app because they can express themselves. The Apple age rating is 12+
How it works:
TikTok
Easy sign up via Facebook, Instagram, email or phone number.
Once logged in, one can search for popular categories to find videos. Thousands of fun, interesting videos made by individuals or companies advertising are at your finger tips to watch.
What a time sucker this app can be. Especially if you are a video enthusiast. Regular people singing, acting, exercising, cooking, acting silly, as well as doing stupid and dangerous stunts...trying to make their fame through likes and comments from around the world.
TikTok has two feeds. A "Following" feed to view friend videos and a "For You" feed that suggests videos from strangers based on a person's viewing history.
I would be cautious about the "For You" mode for Teens. This section can provide content that is hard to stop viewing. Experts say it is easy for students to view mature content or content that can promote self harm or eating disorders so parents need to be aware of what your teen is viewing.
Child Predators are known to be where children and teens are. I always recommend that any parent be on the same app as your kids if you allow them to use the app. TikTok has recently added a Family Pairing feature which allows parents and their children to be on the same account. Most kids will not like this!
It is very important for you to setup an account with your teen. Every area is turned on when you download the app so you need to take steps to turn certain features off to provide greater protection for your teen. You are giving your teens access to 7 billion people and they will not be able to tell the good ones from the bad ones. Remind them to never respond to a stranger.
Check out Common Sense Media who provides rating and reviews for parents in these areas:
TikTok requires that users be at least 13 years old to use the app and anyone under the age of 18 must have approval of a parent or guardian.
Beware:
Dangerous Viral Challenges
The Penny Challenge - which involves dropping a penny between a phone charger and the wall plug which has been blamed for starting fires.
Skullbreaker challenge involves tripping somebody so that they fall and smack their head on the ground!
TikTok's community guidelines maintains that it does not encourage these dangerous challenges. We need to remember that teens sometimes make poor decisions.
Security Concerns
Many have been raised as TikTok collects personal information from kids under 13. October 2019, the US government launched an investigation into ByteDance over concerns about how the data gathered on TikTokers of all ages is being used. They have concerns that the information could be used to spy on Americans and influence political decisions. TikTok says that this information is secure and not stored in China.
Stranger Danger
Though TikTok is "deeply committed" to child safety and has zero tolerance for behavior that could lead to child abuse or sexual exploitation. TikTok has a reputation for being a place where teen girls can receive creepy to upsetting messages from older men.
Being a parent is tough when you want to protect your teens and they want to do what they want to do. Try this app yourself to help you make the decision as to whether to download and us this app especially with tweens and young teens. Set appropriate time limits and review their setup profile to insure they are being protected while using this app. In the evening there should be an iPhone/Android Family Basket to hold everyone’s mobile device so your teens get a good nights rest. They may not like it, but you as a parent will sleep better knowing they aren’t up all night on an app or texting friends!
Social media apps are often hard to monitor and learning how to work with your teens in this area can be very challenging as every child is different. I would encourage every parent to take a Seminar Series by Josh Ochs at SmartSocial.com. He has free parent webinars on all the apps teens are using today. He works with teens across the country and is great at educating parents on these serious issues around using Social Media apps. It will be well work your time!
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